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Our Story

Portrait of the father who tells the Per Se story

Hi, my name is Eddie Nava. In March 2022, my wife and I separated. Less than a month later, I was served with divorce papers. For the next three years, I was locked in a legal battle for visitation with my son.

At first, I believed that simply proving I was a good father would be enough. But I was completely lost in the courtroom process — no guidance, no tools, and an ex-partner making false claims about me.

After about a year, I realized the help I was receiving was unreliable. I started studying the law on my own: visiting the LA Law Library, watching YouTube channels, and reading landmark cases like Troxel v. Granville. Piece by piece, I learned what I needed. Step by step, I filed the paperwork, fought in court, and in March 2025, I finally got my son back. But it had taken years.

That experience made one thing painfully clear: if I had had a tool — something to organize my paperwork, explain court procedures and etiquette, and help me track my case progress — it wouldn't have taken so long.

That's why this app exists. It's not legal advice, but it is the exact tool I wish I had during those years.

“I know Per Se can help other parents fight for their families with more clarity — and in far less time than it took me.”

Landmark case

Troxel v. Granville

U.S. Supreme Court · 530 U.S. 57 (2000)

Grandparents took a mother to court so they could see their granddaughters. The mother won.

Brad Troxel died in 1993. His parents wanted to keep seeing his two daughters. Tommie, the girls' mother, was not cutting them off — she just wanted to decide how much and how often. The grandparents sued, and a judge granted them visits anyway. The mother kept appealing all the way to the Supreme Court, and she won. The reason, in plain terms: if you are a good parent, deciding who sees your children is your call. A judge cannot take that decision away from you just because he would make it differently.

What it means for you

If you are a good parent, the law assumes you know what is best for your child. The judge has to take your decision seriously, not brush it aside.

Who it helps

It helps if a grandparent, stepparent, or other relative wants to see your child and you disagree. It does not help if your dispute is with the other parent.

In California

When it is a grandparent asking for visits, the law covers three situations: a parent has died, a divorce is already underway, or the parents live apart.

Read the full case

7 min read · with verbatim quotes from the opinion

ARTICLES

Resources

Content grounded in scientific research and California law so you are never alone in this process.

Emotional Support

How to Stay Emotionally Grounded During a Custody Case

Custody litigation ranks among the most stressful experiences a person can face. These evidence-based strategies will help you navigate the process without losing control.

Emotional Support

How to Talk to Your Children About Separation Based on Their Age

What you say, how you say it, and when you say it can make all the difference in how your children process this transition. Developmental science gives us clear guidelines.

Emotional Support

Your Wellbeing Can't Wait: Mental Health for Litigating Parents

Taking care of yourself is not a luxury or a selfish act. It is a legal and parental responsibility. Your emotional stability is part of your case.

Legal Information

Physical and Legal Custody in California: Key Differences

Two types of custody, different rights. Understanding this fundamental distinction is the first step to building a solid strategy before the court.

Legal Information

Your First Custody Hearing: What to Expect and How to Prepare

The first hearing is critical. Not because it decides everything, but because it establishes temporary orders that can last months and because the judge forms a first impression that is hard to change.

Legal Information

Mandatory Mediation in California: Complete Guide for Pro Se Parents

In California, mediation is mandatory before almost any custody hearing. Understanding how it works, what to say, and how to prepare can determine the direction of your case.

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